Lifestyle
5 Things Kids Notice About Adults Without Them Realizing It
Children are often more observant than adults give them credit for. They pick up on subtle cues, behaviors, and attitudes that shape their understanding of the world and themselves. Here are five things kids notice about adults without them realizing it:
1. How you feel about your partner, co-parent, or their other caregivers
Kids notice nonverbal cues, criticism, and negative remarks, which can affect their sense of safety and emotional connection. Clinical psychologist Jazmine McCoy advises speaking highly of the other parent and caregivers, even when they’re not present, to help the child feel safe and confident. McCoy suggests saying positive things like, “Wow, Mommy planned a fun adventure for us!” or “This dinner came out great. Daddy is a great chef!”
2. How you feel about your body
Children absorb comments and body language related to body image, learning what is considered desirable or undesirable. Registered dietitian Alyssa Miller notes that kids can read body language and pick up on subtle actions, drawing conclusions about bodies. She encourages adults to be mindful of their own body image and self-talk, as children tend to be more perceptive than adults give them credit for. Miller adds that adults’ body language and comments can influence children’s self-esteem and body confidence.
3. What you actually value
Kids observe actions and behaviors, drawing conclusions about what is important, which may differ from what adults say they value. Clinical psychologist Laura Markham emphasizes the importance of articulating values to children and applying them to daily life, as kids learn by observing adult behavior. Markham notes that adults often unintentionally prioritize winning or achievement over teamwork or effort, which can confuse children.
4. Your self-compassion (or lack thereof)
Children learn from how adults handle mistakes, selftalk, and perfectionism, developing their own approach to resilience and self-criticism. Miller notes that adults who are gentle with themselves and admit mistakes teach kids valuable lessons about resilience and learning from errors. She adds that kids pick up on how adults handle mistakes, self-talk, unrealistic expectations, and perfectionistic tendencies.
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5. Your relationship with food
Kids internalize eating habits, comments, and attitudes towards food, shaping their own relationship with food and potentially influencing unhealthy eating habits. Miller advises modeling a balanced and positive approach to food to help children develop healthy eating habits. She notes that research shows kids tend to eat the same foods their parents do, both as children and as adults.
By being aware of these subtle influences, adults can intentionally model positive behaviors and attitudes, shaping a healthier and more supportive environment for children to grow and develop.
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Parents have been advised to adopt simple, creative activities to keep toddlers engaged during the summer holidays, as experts warn that boredom and inactivity can affect children’s development and behavior.
The advice follows concerns that many parents struggle to manage toddlers’ high energy and curiosity when schools are closed and outdoor play becomes limited due to harsh weather conditions.
Child development specialists noted that engaging toddlers in playful, home-based activities not only keeps them occupied but also supports their mental, physical and emotional growth during the holiday period.
Among the recommended activities is water play, which involves allowing children to interact with water
using cups, spoons and toys, a method said to improve motor skills and coordination while keeping them cool and entertained.
Experts also noted coloring, storytelling and building blocks as effective ways to boost creativity, focus and imagination, stressing that such activities encourage children to express themselves and gradually improve their attention span.
Other suggested activities include indoor obstacle courses, pretend play, music and dance sessions, as well as simple sorting games, all of which help toddlers develop physical strength, communication abilities and problem-solving skills.
They emphasized that play remains a critical tool for early childhood development, stressing that toddlers learn more effectively through interactive and enjoyable experiences than through formal teaching methods, as it enhances brain development, language acquisition, social skills and creativity.
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Health and lifestyle experts have urged women to prioritize healthy living and challenge misconceptions surrounding Polycystic Ovary Syndrome, assuring patients that the condition does not prevent them from living fulfilled and productive lives.
The call was made at the Complete 360 Woman Conference themed “Rebirth,” held in Lagos, where stakeholders emphasized the need for greater awareness and intentional self-care among women. At the conference, professionals across health, wellness and personal development sectors converged to address issues affecting women’s well-being and encourage self-rediscovery despite prevailing social and economic pressures.
Delivering the keynote address, Publisher of Exquisite Magazine, Tewa Onasanya, stressed the importance of mental transformation and self-belief, noting that many women unconsciously limit their own growth due to negative internal narratives. Onasanya said many individuals are constrained not by lack of competence or opportunity, but by beliefs that shape their decisions, adding that embracing a mindset of growth is essential to unlocking potential and achieving purpose.
She described “rebirth” as a continuous process, urging women to make daily decisions that prioritize purpose over fear, growth over comfort, and confidence over doubt in their personal and professional
journeys. Convener of the conference and global emotional intelligence coach, Omotola Ade-Onojobi, explained that the initiative was designed to help women reconnect with their purpose and unlock
hidden potential despite financial, emotional and marital challenges.
During a panel session titled “Revitalize Your Health,” nutritionist and Chief Executive Officer of Zeelicious Foods, Winifred Nwania, highlighted the role of balanced diets and healthy routines in managing hormonal conditions, noting that lifestyle choices significantly influence overall well-being.
Also speaking, actress and medical doctor, Annetta Adebusuyi, said women diagnosed with PCOS could still lead complete lives and achieve motherhood, stressing that proper management, accurate information and a positive mindset remain key to overcoming the condition.
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Diaspora Diva – Duckie Thot
Duckie Thot has become one of the most recognisable faces in global fashion, admired for her striking beauty and strong presence on international runways. Born Nyadak Thot on October 23, 1995, in Melbourne, she is of South Sudanese heritage and grew up in Australia after her family fled conflict in South Sudan before her birth.
Thot first gained public attention in 2013 when she competed in Australia’s Next Top Model, finishing as one of the top contestants. Al-though the exposure helped launch her career, she initially struggled to secure opportunities in Australia, which she attributed to limit-ed representation for models of colour in the local fashion industry.
Determined to pursue her dream, she later relocated to New York, where her career quickly gained momentum. A breakthrough moment came when she was invited to work with Kanye West, leading to her runway debut at the Yeezy Spring/Summer 2017 show. Since then, she has walked for major fashion houses and featured in campaigns for brands including Fenty Beauty, Balmain and Moschino.
Her profile rose further when she starred as Alice in the 2018 Pirelli Calendar in-spired by Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland. The project, which featured an all-Black cast, celebrated diversity in fashion and helped cement Thot’s reputation as one of the industry’s most influen-tial models.Beyond modelling, Thot has also been vocal about di-versity and inclusion in the beauty and fashion world. Having once struggled to find makeup suited to her skin tone on photo shoots, she now advocates for broader repre-sentation behind the scenes and on the runway, inspiring a new generation of models to see themselves reflected
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