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5 Things Kids Notice About Adults Without Them Realizing It

Children are often more observant than adults give them credit for. They pick up on subtle cues, behaviors, and attitudes that shape their understanding of the world and themselves. Here are five things kids notice about adults without them realizing it:
1. How you feel about your partner, co-parent, or their other caregivers
Kids notice nonverbal cues, criticism, and negative remarks, which can affect their sense of safety and emotional connection. Clinical psychologist Jazmine McCoy advises speaking highly of the other parent and caregivers, even when they’re not present, to help the child feel safe and confident. McCoy suggests saying positive things like, “Wow, Mommy planned a fun adventure for us!” or “This dinner came out great. Daddy is a great chef!”
2. How you feel about your body
Children absorb comments and body language related to body image, learning what is considered desirable or undesirable. Registered dietitian Alyssa Miller notes that kids can read body language and pick up on subtle actions, drawing conclusions about bodies. She encourages adults to be mindful of their own body image and self-talk, as children tend to be more perceptive than adults give them credit for. Miller adds that adults’ body language and comments can influence children’s self-esteem and body confidence.
3. What you actually value
Kids observe actions and behaviors, drawing conclusions about what is important, which may differ from what adults say they value. Clinical psychologist Laura Markham emphasizes the importance of articulating values to children and applying them to daily life, as kids learn by observing adult behavior. Markham notes that adults often unintentionally prioritize winning or achievement over teamwork or effort, which can confuse children.
4. Your self-compassion (or lack thereof)
Children learn from how adults handle mistakes, selftalk, and perfectionism, developing their own approach to resilience and self-criticism. Miller notes that adults who are gentle with themselves and admit mistakes teach kids valuable lessons about resilience and learning from errors. She adds that kids pick up on how adults handle mistakes, self-talk, unrealistic expectations, and perfectionistic tendencies.
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5. Your relationship with food
Kids internalize eating habits, comments, and attitudes towards food, shaping their own relationship with food and potentially influencing unhealthy eating habits. Miller advises modeling a balanced and positive approach to food to help children develop healthy eating habits. She notes that research shows kids tend to eat the same foods their parents do, both as children and as adults.
By being aware of these subtle influences, adults can intentionally model positive behaviors and attitudes, shaping a healthier and more supportive environment for children to grow and develop.
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African Beauty Brands You Should Know

Many African beauty brands are striving to bring the perfect products for each person closer to them, both at home and in the diaspora. These brands celebrate indigenous ingredients and sustainable practices and their names are making waves across the globe. Offering products that blend tradition with innovation, each of them carves its unique space and thrives in it.
These brands are curated without using standard criteria.
Shea Moisture
As a global beauty brand, Shea Moisture has deep African roots. This company was founded in 1991 by Liberians Nyema Tubman and Richelieu Dennis. The establishment of the brand was inspired by Dennis’ grandmother who sold shea butter in Sierra Leone, the brand uses raw shea and other African ingredients to create hair and skincare products tailored for textured hair and melanin-rich skin. They offer skin cleansing products with naturally derived formula and their products are available for adults and children.
Arami Essentials
Founded in Lagos, Nigeria, Arami champions minimalist skincare using raw, natural ingredients like shea butter, coconut oil, and black soap. Their simple yet elegant packaging and effective formulations have earned them a cult following both in Africa and abroad. Arami Essentials was established when the owner, Ore Runsewe, arrived in Nigeria from the UK, where she could not access hair products that suited her.
LIHA Beauty
This is a British-Nigerian beauty brand that focuses on natural, sustainable and ethically sourced ingredients for their products. Merging Yoruba tradition with British chic, LIHA Beauty was created by friends Liha Okunniwa and Abi Oyepitan. They utilize ingredients like raw shea butter, coconut oil, and tuberose to produce top products. LIHA Beauty celebrates African wellness with a modern twist.
Nubian Heritage
Known for its use of culturally authentic ingredients like frankincense, myrrh, and African black soap, Nubian Heritage is beloved for fusing ancient beauty recipes with contemporary science to create nourishing body care products. Nubian Heritage is inspired by African healing traditions. Here, they use organic ingredients to revitalize the skin and hair of their customers.
Skin Gourmet
This Accra-based brand creates 100% natural, edible skincare using raw ingredients sourced directly from Ghanaian farmers. With products like baobab oil and cocoa butter scrubs, Skin Gourmet is redefining luxury with authenticity and sustainability at its core. They use meticulous methods to craft their products which are free from preservatives.
These brands are redefining beauty like never before. Using natural ingredients, effective formulations and appealing packaging, they are telling African stories in their own way. Also, in the little way they can, they are empowering local communities, and showing the world the richness of the continent’s natural and cultural resources.
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Wizkid and Ayra Starr Face Backlash Over ‘Gimme Dat’ Lyrics Referencing ‘Diallo’

Wizkid and Ayra Starr Face Backlash Over ‘Gimme Dat’ Lyrics Referencing ‘Diallo’
Nigerian music stars Wizkid and Ayra Starr are under scrutiny following the release of their latest collaboration, “Gimme Dat.” The track has sparked controversy due to its chorus, which repeatedly mentions the name “Diallo” in a romantic context. Some listeners interpret this as a reference to Amadou Diallo, a 23-year-old Guinean immigrant fatally shot by New York City police in 1999.
The contentious lyrics—“Diallo, Diallo / If I give you my love, oh / Make you no disappoint, oh…”—have been deemed by some as insensitive, suggesting they trivialize a significant historical tragedy.
Following the song’s release, Ayra Starr promoted the accompanying music video on X (formerly Twitter), sharing a snapshot and inviting fans to watch. However, the post quickly attracted criticism. A user, @Catchoris, expressed disapproval in a tweet that has since garnered over 2.5 million impressions:
“Ayra Starr & Wizkid are so ignorant. Wyclef sang ‘Diallo’ about the US police killing an unarmed African in 2000. 25 years later, 2 African stars turn that sad tune about police brutality into a stupid song about sex, repeatedly calling the murdered man’s name in the silly chorus.”
While some fans echoed these sentiments, accusing the artists of cultural insensitivity, others offered a different perspective. User @menlotanna argued:
“I get your point but you’re wrong bro. Ayra’s song samples Wyclef Jean’s ft Mary J. Blige ‘911’ which is actually a love song. And the ‘Diallo’ in Ayra’s chorus doesn’t reference the song you’re referring to because the notes in these songs are totally different.”
Indeed, “Gimme Dat” samples Wyclef Jean and Mary J. Blige’s 2000 hit “911,” a song depicting star-crossed lovers entangled in drama, with the male narrator evading police while the female narrator expresses concern. The original “911” does not reference Amadou Diallo. However, Wyclef Jean did release a separate track titled “Diallo,” directly addressing the 1999 police shooting of Amadou Diallo and criticizing systemic racism and police brutality.(en.wikipedia.org, en.wikipedia.org)
The confusion may stem from the similarity in names and Wyclef Jean’s involvement in both songs. While “911” is a romantic narrative, “Diallo” serves as a protest song memorializing Amadou Diallo’s tragic death.
As debates continue, neither Wizkid nor Ayra Starr have publicly addressed the controversy. Meanwhile, “Gimme Dat” has achieved commercial success, amassing over 1 million Spotify streams within 12 hours of its release. The song’s popularity underscores the global reach of Afrobeats, even as discussions about cultural sensitivity and artistic responsibility persist.(Inside Port Harcourt)
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